Firstly, there is the division between romantic life and reality, like, real life and all. In real life
men and women are 95-98% alike. Romantically men and women are 100% different.

Men are attracted to Leah Culver or Kriston Bell based on physical looks and personality, a scale of ten and all. But Leah Culver and Kriston Bell’s
romantic criterion will be physical looks, status, and excitement novelty, a scale of ten for each category to make 30. LC and KB will only like men
who score 24 or higher. Below 24 enters the unappealing category.

Thus, LC and KB’s romantic criterion is based on more than status, more than looks, more than excitement and novelty, but a combination of the three. Exicitement and novelty is the most vague, most complicated of female mate selection, and most confusing to men. It involves fantasy scripts, a fantasy scripts is type of something, e.g. the bohemian FS would be a guy who lives an unconventional lifestyle which would likely relate to his occupation. And within a fantasy script are subcategories, e.g.,bohemian includes writers, artists, musicians, software programmers etc. Other
examples of fantasy scripts are law enforcement, military, aerospace, power wealth, all with concomitant subcategories.

E.G. if LC preferred bohemian men, software programmers may be the top category she finds most appealing, followed by writers, musicians, or maybe some other hierarchy. And if LC was not into the military or law enforcement FS, than men of that type
could never win her over, as she would find them boring.

Thus, LC and KB romantic criterion for men involves more than status. E.G., if there are guy A and guy B,
both have equal high status, both are handsome and all, the one who LC considers more exciting, matches her bohemian FS, will be the one she opts for(is attracted to),
relationship and all.

There are many types of FS’s, too many to amplify in this email. But the upshot is, a women can carry more than one FS in her head, and within a FS, she can shift, like, change her hierarchy of categories,but to
win her would require more than status alone, more than looks, and rejection by her, if the guy had the requisite status and looks, would likely by because she finds him boring, e.g., not interesting.

Thus, when LC or KB says a given guy is boring, it
is analogous to a guy finding a women unattractive.
None of this can be changed because it is genetic,
like hard-wired in LC and KB’s brain. It’s like, as
genetic as a man being attracted to Paris Hilton because of her excellent body. Thus, finding fault
with LC not liking boring guys is like complaining about 10 degree weather in Michigan in January.

So who wins LC or KB’s is beyond his control. If the
two women finds him boring, there’s nothing he can
do. It is an existential reality.